Alex and Maddy

Sunday, June 27, 2021

VBS

 This week has had some highs and some lows.

I'll start with the highs...This week was Vacation Bible School week. I have been a part of VBS since I was a little girl. First attending, then as a youth volunteer and now at KUMC since Alex was 3. Last year was so sad to not be able to participate in this annual tradition. There is something so amazing about seeing hundreds of kids enjoying themselves and worshiping together. Maddy had a blast attending with some of her best friends. We made a compromise and she wore a mask whenever we were in larger groups and then I allowed her to take it off when she was just with our small group. She was so sad on Thursday when it was over! This week again reminded me why I love our church and church family so much!

























The lows are medical in nature. First, is Alex's temporary line. It is placed in his arm. If he bends his arm in any way his pump thinks it is occluded and beeps. Translated this means that Alex and I have gotten very little to no sleep over the past two weeks. Multiple times a night I have to go into his room and readjust his arm in order to stop the beeping pump. I am EXHAUSTED! We have an appointment with surgery on Tuesday. We are praying that we can schedule surgery for a new port quickly.

Both kids saw Cardiology this week. We had a scare with Alex, but it wound up being a fluke. (His first echo showed major changes since last year pointing to Cardiomyopathy) Thank goodness. Both kids hearts looked good. They wore Holter monitors for 24 hours and we will get those results in about a week. Some of you may know that Maddy has been struggling since about November of last year with feeling really bad after every time she exercises (ie: Horseback riding). She gets extremely pale, fatigued and nauseous and is complaining of headaches. We have ruled out a few diagnoses over this time, but haven't really found anything to help. One of the reasons we saw cardiology this week (before our normal yearly checkup) was to discuss whether this could be a form of Dysautonomia. Your autonomic Nervous system controls all the things you don't think about like blood pressure, heart rate, body temperature and many other things. Dr. H feels like this is the likely cause and is much more prevalent in people with hypermobility in their joints. Before starting a medication we need to see if we can make headway by getting more fluids in her. (People with dysautonomia need a lot more fluids than a normal person in general). Unfortunately, this means after 4 years of using Maddy's tube only at night she will need to be hooked up several times during the day to get more fluids in. She has a good attitude and just hopes this helps her stop feeling bad after riding!






Please pray for Alex's surgery, for Maddy to tolerate the extra fluids and for them to help and for me to get some much needed rest!


Ali

Saturday, June 19, 2021

Where do the days go?

 Somehow June is almost over. This summer is flying by. Let me try and fill you in on this month!

It is pretty easy to summarize Maddy's month: Horseback riding, horseback riding and more horseback riding with a little swimming thrown in! 

Best buds!

Sometimes you get to ride a new horse when your horse throws a shoe!

Grooming at camp

Getting ready to throw hay

Camp Days!


If you ever doubted her toughness, she rode with this blister all week!


Pool Time



When your Coach lets you cut your horses mane!






On Alex's birthday, we went bowling, played games at the arcade and had dinner and cake with Mimi and PopPop. It was a good birthday!






Medically, Alex is doing great since surgery. He hates a PICC line, but other than that annoyance, he feels good. We finish antibiotics next Friday and have an appointment with surgery on the 29th to schedule surgery for a new port. Hopefully, we can schedule quickly as he has his mission trip and summer theater  workshop in July and then Maddy's horse show and our big trip in August.

This kid deals with more than anyone I know, always with a smile on his face. May we all learn to be more like him.


I am feeling better each day. My recovery was a little rougher than it should have been due to the circumstances. I was supposed to ice all day for the first 12 hours. I was only able to ice twice during that time period. So I wound up with significant swelling. Luckily when we got to the floor we had some awesome nurses who brought me ice packs and encouraged me to rest some. I will be glad to get all these stitches out on the 29th! 

Maddy is working hard to prepare for the NSBA World Horse Show in Tulsa in August. If you are interested in sponsoring her there are several ways:

1. Go to the webpage and make a donation in honor of Maddy: https://victorytherapy.org/show-support/

2. Sponsor her during her Ride-a-thon:


3. If you are local, enjoy a delicious meal!

As is so often the case in our life, there is so much good and fun sprinkled in with the hard day to day. We are so grateful to our friends and family who choose to be a part of our journey. Those who help us pick up the slack, those who laugh with us, those who cry with us, those who pray for us. We cannot imagine this life without your friendship and love.
Ali