Alex and Maddy

Alex and Maddy

Friday, October 20, 2017


As we went through this last week, I realized how grateful I am for all of the blessings in our lives. It was a pretty ordinary week around here, but I saw so much to be grateful for.

On Saturday, I saw the joy of siblings who love each other so much. A brother and sister ten years apart who find a way to play and have fun and support each other.

On Sunday, it was a church where we feel at home. Where the kids have friends. Where no one bats a eye when Alex shows up with his service dog. Where I can laugh or cry and know I am loved.

On Monday, it was a special morning with my girl. It was ballet and haircuts and shopping and being girls!

On Tuesday, it was the amazing women who are quickly becoming friends in my bible study. It is women who encourage me and push me and allow me to be true to who I am.

On Wednesday, it was our amazing nurse. She loves my babies and they love her. She is a part of our family. She joins in our craziness and never thinks twice. She lets me vent when I am frustrated and laugh at the nuttiness that is our life. And boy do we laugh!

On Thursday, it was Maddy's school. Maddy is THRIVING in school. She loves every minute of it. She loves the teachers and the friends and the learning and the reading and music and playground. We are so grateful to a staff that loves her well and goes out of their way to make sure she is okay and safe.

Today, it was Mom's club. It was time with Mom's who are going through the same stage as I am. Friends who invite us over and let me show up in yoga pants with no makeup!

All week I watched as Alex's fundraiser crept up until he has reached and surpassed his goal. And I was able to show him how he can make a difference in this world by his choices, his story and the life he lives.Alex's Fundraiser

Thank you for being a part of our story. Thank you for helping us find the joy in a life that is not always easy.


PS- Sorry for no computer wouldn't cooperate!

Friday, October 13, 2017

Extra Life

For the most part, this week has been pretty ordinary. We have done dance, school, therapy, doctor's appointments, acting and golf. We are all still trying to recoup our energy from last week. Both kiddos have been a little off all week and I am fighting a cold. Basically, a week of put one foot in front of the other and march on.

As most of you know, Maddy and Alex are Children's Miracle Network Champions for Cook Children's Hospital. We love sharing our story and explaining to people how important Cook's and Family Centered Care is. While we enjoy all of the events we participate in, there are two that stand out as favorites: Dance Marathon and Extra Life.

Extra Life is a 24 hour gaming marathon to earn money for Children's Miracle Network Hospitals. Because Games are Alex's very favorite thing, he loves this event passionately. He loves board games, card games and video games. If he isn't gaming, he is watching videos about games. Through Extra Life we have met fellow gamers who have taken Alex under their wing and become friends. While Alex realizes the impact we have by sharing or story, he also likes to use this event to raise money for Cook's so he feels more invested in the fundraising himself. If you feel called, please consider donating to his page and helping him meet his goal.


Alex and David (He is the leader of top earning team for Cook Children's)

Maddy and her best friend, Wyatt

Alex gaming in his room

Maddy during Circle Time in her class!

Maddy mixing her own formula

Maddy and JR (One of his favorite Gaming Buddies)

Saturday, October 7, 2017

Trip to Houston

We left Sunday to drive to Houston for 4 appointments for Alex and 3 for Maddy. Overall the appointments went well, but it is always exhausting to cram so many appointments in such a short time. The appointments coupled with the travel leaves us all feeling like we've been run over by a truck by the time we make it home!

Monday morning Alex saw our pulmonologist and sleep doctor. Alex's last sleep study showed some apneas so we discussed our plan going forward. We are going to hold off on removing his tonsils and adenoids because no one wants to put him through surgery right now. He already has a bipap machine. We are adding a medication for allergy/asthma issues that hopefully will help.  We ran some labs looking for a cause for Restless leg Syndrome/Periodic limb Movement Disorder. We also did some pulmonary testing both standing up and laying down to see how much his abdominal distention is affecting his breathing while laying down.

Monday afternoon both kids saw our immunologist, who is one of our very favorite doctors. She didn't want to change much as far as Alex is concerned. She only wanted to remove a medication that can be dangerous with an immune deficiency.  We talked quite a bit about Maddy and the many infections she has had over the past 6 months. She ran a bunch of labs and we will determine our next steps based on the results of those labs. She also started Maddy on an allergy medication to help with her environmental allergies.

Tuesday we saw Dr. Koenig our Mitochondrial Disease Doctor/Neurologist. Overall she is happy with the progress Maddy has made developmentally. Her tone is still not great and her gait is still not normal, but compared to a few years ago she has come so far. She wants us to continue our therapy and is thrilled she is taking dance. She also wanted a bunch of labs on Maddy Moo. She had made some medication changes last visit with Alex (increased his seizure medication) and was happy to know we have seen improvement. We spent quite a bit of the appointment discussing his GI system and decline and whether doing surgery is the right choice for Alex. Dr. Koenig, Alex and I have been through SO much together and there is a high level of respect and trust all around. Alex and I wanted her opinion on our options. She did a great job talking to Alex and reassuring him that his voice counts!

Our last appointment on Wednesday was with Cardiology. For Alex, no changes. His device that closed his hole looks great and there is no sign of infection from April. Maddy still has a hole that is shunting blood. We will follow-up next year and if the hole is still there move forward with closing it.

As hard as this trip is several times a year it is so good to be with doctors who are so familiar with Mito and see patients like my kiddos day in and day out. I am SO grateful to our awesome nurse, Erin who traveled with us and spent 4 days as a part of our circus with no breaks and no complaints. We are lucky that we can all laugh and enjoy each others company to lighten up the hard times.

Thank you to everyone who prayed for us. We are happy to be home and enjoying a few quiet days before jumping back into our crazy schedule next week.