Alex and Maddy

Sunday, June 29, 2025

So Much Fun!

 We have managed to pack quite a bit into the past two weeks! But what is summer for if not to make memories and have fun with some of your favorite people!

We didn't allow ourselves much (or any) time to recover from our trip to Florida! The morning after returning home we jumped right back into barn life and our usual crazy schedule! 




We sure did miss Lila and Quigley while we were away!

Then last weekend I left on my first girls weekend in 21 years! I know most Mom's find a way to get away and refill their cup with friends before their oldest is 21, but with the kids medical issues and fragile health this is the first time I have been able to take that time. And boy was it fun! I spent the weekend with the three moms who were with us through many of our best and our hardest times. When Alex was one month old in July of 2004 we attended out first playgroup. Allison and Melissa and I were there for that first meetup. Kelly joined us a short 10 months later and the four of us raised our kids together. Others came and went throughout the years, but the four of us stayed together. We truly did life together for so many years. We met at least once a week, but in reality it was much more than that. Our kids were each others first best friends. And we walked together through the struggles of figuring out motherhood. We laughed, we cried, we spent holidays together, we had moms nights and dates nights, we took the kids to the zoo and to see shows and so much more. I cannot imagine Motherhood without these three women. And so it was only appropriate that my first girls weekend was with the women who were with me for so many "firsts". It had been years since the four of us were together, but you would have never known. We ate, we drank, we shopped, we laughed and we cried. We came home exhausted, but with our hearts full. We have promised not to let time get away again and to stay connected. We cannot wait for our next weekend together!



This past week was spent with our church family who have also been a part of our lives since the day Alex was born. For the last time, Maddy attended VBS as a participant. Next year she will join Alex and I as volunteers and give back to the church that has poured into our family since the very beginning!

Did I mention I had the best job?


Alex volunteered with Maddy's age group





This week culminated with our first home show at Stable Strides Farm. Maddy was very anxious as in the past in house shows have been difficult. After this weekend, while they still aren't her favorite she was able to admit that it wasn't "as bad" as she expected. Her and Quigley have worked incredibly hard over the past six months as we try and take a jumper and make him an all around horse. They put together so many of the pieces they have been working on and Maddy advocated for herself multiple times which is the biggest win of all! We have one week of practice and then we are off to our first of 5 world shows over the second half of the year. 

Maddy arrived hours before the show to give Quigley a bubble bath.


And groom. She always takes amazing care of her partner.



Showmanship

Trail






Day 2 was Hunter Under Saddle and Hunt Seat Equitation

Maddy and I were able to have some pretty serious conversations over the past week and it reminded me once again my little girl is not so little. I love her maturity and confidence and that she now feels comfortable to advocate for what she wants and needs. And so we head off to a World Show and then a meeting with Mandy when we come home so she can share new goals and hopes for the future and how she would like to proceed as an equestrian. I love to see her comfortable to speak her truth. So much to be grateful for!

I would appreciate prayers for safe travels and a fun time with her horse and friends! And that Alex stays well while I am away. 

Sorry for the short update, but summer means more fun to be had!

Ali

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

An awesome trip with family

 My mom recently moved from the Myrtle Beach area that she has called home for most of the past 18 years to Florida to be closer to my sister. When I first talked to the kids about visiting they were unsure. They love their time with Mimi each summer, but change is hard and we have years of memories and traditions in South Carolina not to mention reminders of PopPop that we treasure. But both kids had a great week and I feel confident we will make new memories in a new place. Not to mention we had so much fun with my sister and her family!

The first order of business was toasting to PopPop!

It was a whirlwind of a week as we tried to squeeze way too much into our time! We started the vacation by spending two days in St Augustine soaking up the history and ghost stories as we celebrated Alex's 21st birthday!

The haunted hotel








Our mode of transportation was the trolley!

Alex's first legal drink

Family dinner to celebrate Alex's 21st!

Cousins


Fountain of Youth



Castillo de Sans Marcos





The old jail




We also spent a few days at the beach which we always love!








We made a day trip across the state to visit my Dad.






And we finished the week in Ocala so Maddy could see the World Equestrian Center!







And what would a trip to Florida be without some alligators?





It was a week doing what we love with the family we wish we could see more often. Now we are home and prepping for the World Shows Maddy competes in over the summer. Alex is enjoying his time relaxing and recouping before starting his Junior year at DBU!

Ali




Sunday, June 8, 2025

Happy 21st Birthday!

To my precious Bug-

21 years ago you made my greatest dream come true. When I held you in my arms for the first time I never could have imagined the path before us, but I wouldn’t change it for anything. The relationship you and I have has been built on so much time together, fear, tears, faith and so much laughter and it is so very special. We have walked together through so much and always managed to be there for each other and to choose joy, laughter and love no matter how hard the days have been. I could not be more proud of the man you have become. Your kindness, respect for others, love of God and love of life shine through in everything you do. You are the best son, brother and friend anyone could ask for. God chose you to live an incredibly hard life, but you have lived it with grace and strength and your life has impacted so many as they have watched you walk each day with joy and faith.  Thanks for being the best son I could ever ask for. I love you more than you will ever know!

Mom