Alex and Maddy

Sunday, November 26, 2017

Long Overdue Update

I have been trying for a month to find the time and sit down to get a blog post done. The fates have not been kind, but I am finally doing it tonight!

Maddy had such an awesome Birthday and Halloween. This was the first year she really got that Halloween was her birthday and she loved that the whole day was full of celebrations. She started the day with a Costume Parade at School. Then we brought donuts for her class to enjoy.



After lunch her class had a halloween party with crafts and snacks. We left school and headed to therapy for trick or treating. We quickly opened presents before it was time to hand out candy. She was exhausted by bedtime! 

On November 4th, Alex participated in Extra Life for the Second year in a row. It is a day he looks forward to all year. It is amazing to be able to do something you love for a good cause. Thanks to the generosity of our friends and family, Alex was able to raise over $2000 for Cook Children's Hospital!


The rest of our month has been pretty busy medically. Alex has made 3 trips to the ER, 2 of them winding up in admissions. Maddy has been sick twice and has had an increase in her reflux and we've had a host of doctors appointments. 

For Alex, the problems we are having all stem from his GI system. His GI system has been cruddy for years, but starting in January we saw a decline in function leaving him with horrendous distention, increased nausea and relentless pain. His GI function has declined to the point that he has now had two episodes of sepsis (serious bloodstream infection) caused by his gut leaking bacteria into his bloodstream. We have tried as many interventions as we can and are at a crossroads. We have decided that the only option is to have a pretty major surgery to try and alleviate his symptoms and the infections. It is not a decision we have reached lightly. Alex will have surgery after the first of the year (probably February). In the meantime, we are going to do a procedure to try and offer some short term relief. 

Maddy has had an easier time, but she hasn't had a great month either. She has had two colds and has been vomiting on a regular basis. We thought she had a stomach bug, but at this point we believe it is just reflux as it has been going on for weeks, and almost always happens when she is lying down. She will be having an endoscopy and colonoscopy on Wednesday to try and see if there is any signs of what could be causing this. She has also been complaining of daily stomach pain for a few months. 

Alex has not been able to participate in most of his activities, but he has managed to stay in acting. He has his performance this weekend and I am praying he feels well enough to enjoy it after all of his hard work. 

Maddy continues to thrive in school and dance. She hates to miss either one! I was sad to miss two special events while Alex was in the hospital, but was grateful for friends and her awesome teachers who took pictures and kept me up to date!


Maddy loves to help me cook!

Crazy girl!

Alex "riding" Zoey

Hanging out at the Hospital


Best Visitor


True Love

So happy to be together
We had a really quiet Thanksgiving. Dad was supposed to come visit, but because Alex was in the hospital and we weren't sure when we would be discharged, he cancelled his trip.

Baking on Thanksgiving

Best part...licking the bowl!
Today we went to get our Christmas tree. It was good for Alex to get out, but he only lasted a short time before he wasn't feeling great again.




Please continue to lift us up in prayer as we try and help Alex both physically and emotionally overt he next several months.

Ali

Details on Hospitalizations for my records... Alex went to ER on Sunday, November 5th, but was sent home from ER. Back to the ER on November 9th with 101.4 fever and cold symptoms (Maddy also had a cold). Discharged the next morning to make it to a pain team appointment. All cultures were negative. Back to ER on November 16th. Fever of 104.1. Admitted and blood cultures grew out in less then 12 hours. Inpatient until November 21st.

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Happy Birthday, Madelyn Paige!

As I woke up this morning I thought back four years to a Halloween that was nothing like I expected. On October 30th, 2013, I called my OB/GYN concerned because Maddy was not moving as she had been for most of my pregnancy. They asked me to come in the next morning at 9:00. When I arrived at the office they tried to stimulate Maddy to induce movement. When they could not get any movements they rushed me to the hospital to be induced. Madelyn arrived at 4:50 PM and changed our lives forever.
Oh my Maddy Moo....She was and is such a doll. She can be the sassiest, spunkiest, most strong willed little toot. By she has the sweetest heart. She is a nurturer and has a kindness unlike any other. I catch her all the time consoling friends who are crying. She is quick to cuddle and hug and say I love you. She loves her friends and her teachers, but it is her family she adores. She looks up to her big brother and wants so much to spend every waking moment with him. She loves to read, play dolls, play with her animals, play dress up and do arts and crafts. She loves to dance. She is Mommy's helper and loves all things girly. She is funny, god is she funny. She makes us laugh all...the...time! Her joy is infectious. She is such a Gift from God.

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My precious Madelyn Paige-
How very long we waited for you. Oh my sweet girl, you were so worth the wait. I love to watch the way you tackle life head on. Your personality is so much bigger then that little body. You are the most determined little girl. You are smart and independent, funny and stubborn, joyful and kind. You have so much love to give. Always go after your dreams with the same passion and perseverance you do now. Go into this world knowing you are a beloved child of god and spread your light to everyone you meet. I love you my more then you will ever know, Maddy-Moo!

Love,
Mommy

Saturday, October 28, 2017

A Mixed Bag

This week was a mix of good and bad.

I'll start with the bad. Both kids have been feeling pretty cruddy. Alex has had some of the worst pain, he's had this year. We are waiting on a procedure in November that should help and then we need to make decisions about a major surgery that would be more of a long term solution. I feel bad as we try to keep him engaged and participating in life when he'd rather lay in the bed all day. Maddy is complaining daily of stomach and leg pain. We are trying to get to the cause of her pain so we can help her feel better!

The good...We had some fun events this week as well. Maddy continues to thrive at school. She is so happy to be there. I am so grateful for there love and care for Mad. Alex participated in the Cook Children's Haunted House this week where patients participate in scaring not only other patients, but also doctors, nurses and staff. It is something he really looks forward to and enjoys. Yesterday we went to a VIP showing of the Fort Worth Air Show for the sixth year in a row. We always enjoy it and appreciate Make A Wish inviting us. It was a little less enjoyable yesterday as out temps dropped from 86 degrees on Thursday to 56 degrees yesterday! BRRRR!!!We were all freezing!

Maddy's School picture

My Sassy Pants

Hair Cut Day

Air Show

In the tent waiting to see the Blue Angels

Alex's version of trying to stay warm

Alex and Erin


Sibling Love




Air Show 2017

Pretty Girl

Trying to stay warm this morning!

Please continue to pray for these precious babies. Prayers that they will feel better and be able to enjoy all of the fun we have planned over the next week to celebrate Halloween and Maddy!

Ali

PS- Alex's Fundraiser has one more week. He is doing great, but would be grateful for any other donations to help Cook Children's Hospital! Link to donate