Sometimes I am unsure how to put into words what a blessing our new barn family has been. This weekend was amazing for my Maddy Moo.
She had a bit of anxiety in the few days leading up to it. During our final practice on Thursday, Lila had a lot more energy and wasn't listening quite as well as she normally does. That along with knowing she would see the people from our former barn added to her anxiety. Maddy and I had several conversations to help her feel more comfortable and our good friend Jackie who volunteers and shows in the Veterans classes also spoke to her to try and help calm her fears.
Maddy getting Lila show ready on Thursday. |
There are so many things that make me proud of my girl, but one of the biggest is her relentless determination to take good care of her horse, to learn and be involved in all areas of preparing for practice and shows and her desire to constantly improve in her skills. That little girl works so hard in all ways regardless of how bad she feels, how tired she is or how much she hurts. Lila is so very lucky as she receives more love, grooming and care than any horse could ask for. To watch the bond between Maddy and Lila is really special.
Jackie is so patient teaching Maddy! |
Nichole was back to be Maddy's volunteer for the first time in several years! |
These two are so sweet together |
Going into the show, Maddy knew Saturday would be a better day for them than Friday. Maddy has worked each lesson to get Lila into more of a western pleasure jog and at the barn is has improved every lesson, but horses always have a little extra energy and spunk at shows so she was prepared that her work might not translate to the show ring. As they entered the arena for a warmup before the class Lila got the zoomies as Maddy has named them. I saw Mandy go over and talk to Maddy. And then she preceded to take off Maddy's spurs. Maddy and Lila had moments during that horsemanship class that were beautiful, and I could see the fruits of her labor. However, it was a large class of 17 and as the riders got bunched up Lila sped up. Maddy continued to correct her and did everything she could to communicate with her horse. She finished with a 7th place finish! Following awards they stayed in the ring for a second class. Unfortunately, during the second class Maddy struggled to get Lila to trot without her spurs. She did eventually get her going, but did not place. My favorite part of all of this is the relationship that Maddy and Mandy have formed in a very short period of time. Mandy did not simply go over and tell Maddy to take off her spurs. They had a conversation and worked together to come up with a plan. Mandy thanked Maddy for trusting her and Mad told me that even though she was nervous she did trust Mandy. They have already had another conversation and some ideas to try moving forward to continue to improve Maddy's and Lila's pleasure class and jog. I love the way that Mandy doesn't treat Maddy as a young kid and bark orders. Instead, she lets her be a part of the plan and process. And Maddy feels very comfortable sharing her feelings with Mandy and letting her know when she agrees and when she has another idea. For those that know Maddy, you know what a testament that is to Mandy after just 4 months together!
Maddy had high hopes for Saturday as she had two classes she has traditionally done very well in and the class she was most looking forward to competing in. She started the morning with trail. It is not her favorite class to show, but she has always been very good at it. She had hoped to go 2nd or 3rd, but when no one else would go she stepped up and went first. She rode a beautiful trail pattern and finished up with a third-place finish. Next up was showmanship. She used to dread Showmanship, but she has come to like it, and she is excellent at it. It is probably my favorite class to watch her show. Her grace, her poise and dare I say her confidence shine in this class. She makes it look effortless, and it is far from it. She was the reserve World Champion (2nd place). After Showmanship, it was time for English Equitation. Before joining Stable Strides Maddy was petrified to ride in an English saddle. So, she has only consistently been riding English for the past few months and her improvement is astounding. Maddy has fallen in love with riding English and begs Mandy to do more English each week. It is so fun to watch her joy as she has fallen in love with this new discipline. Maddy was a little disappointed in her finish in English, but placing 7th is an amazing accomplishment and she knows she made a mistake that likely cost her. She is anxious to get back to work and continue improving and I imagine it won't be long until she gets the results she hopes for.
My favorite moments from this weekend have absolutely nothing to do with riding. They were the moments I witnessed between classes that remind me we are in the absolute best place for my sweet girl. Maddy struggles to talk to almost anyone until she is pretty comfortable with them, but males have been harder than females most times. On Friday as Maddy and Lila were in the arena waiting on the second class, I looked across and saw her chatting and laughing with Alan, a volunteer and veteran rider. Maddy first met Alan in Tulsa, but didn't have much interaction with him. Friday was only the second time she had seen him! Alan has a gentle and kind spirit, and my sweet girl recognized that and felt safe to open up. On Saturday the wait for Showmanship results was pretty long. Maddy was in the arena with her teammates and I watched as her and two of her teammates were talking and laughing so hard they were doubled over at times. There were so many moments like this over the past two days and really the months that we have been a part of the Stable Strides Family. I am watching this amazing group break through the shyness and touch my girl and she is thriving and blossoming in ways I wasn't sure was possible. She feels loved. She feels comfortable. She feels safe. I am watching her anxiety melt away and be replaced by peace and joy.
Maddy and Aiden |
Maddy and a former teammate, Samantha |
Maddy and Patrick |
Maddy and Ana watching Chris do Showmanship |
Waiting on awards |
What a gift this barn has given us. They have shown us true friendship and support. They have given us camaraderie. They have reminded us of what it is like to have peace. They have brought fun and joy to every part of this journey from the time at the barn to the shows. They are healing our hearts.
We are so grateful for this place and this time.
Ali